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LOVE SHOULD BE A DECISION, NOT AN EMOTION
Posted On: 23/12/2007 06:20:54
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Love should be a decision , not an emotion .
Love should be a decision , not an emotion . People should not fall in
Love, they should make a conscious decision about it . Falling in love
is not bad itself , but falling out of love is bad.
I'm not talking about casual love . These piece deals with the mate -
seeking love between a man and a woman . There are other kinds of love
and relationships. Some of the principles here may or may not apply
there.
If there are worldly reason for loving someone , those reason can one day
go away.One day , you can meet another person who has those qualities,
things , or even feelings for you more than this person you love today. As you
grow and change as a person , and as position your in life and in society changes.
Your likes and dislikes changes . What are you satisfied with once may not satisfy
you anymore. You may even get bored of someone .
These reason cause two people in love to fall apart. That is sad Love and Marriage
is a very important decision . It should be a firm decision. You should stick by it because
you made that decision. If you believe in god , it should be a decision you can make in front of god.
We all make mistakes . There often sometimes we do something which breaks other person's trust .That shouldn't be an issue in an relationship and especially not one in an marriage . A person's mistakes should not be able to break love because love should not be based on emotions or worldly things as I mentioned . It should be just a decision that both parties have firmly made in front of themselves , and if they believe in god , then front of god.
Questions : Decision in life are often taken back , sometimes wisely what about these one ?
There are some decisions that we make in our life not because of consequence but because those decision are based on our principles, beliefs . they are based on who
and what you are . If we go back on those decision you upset on very fiber on your being love , the kind of love the life deals with.one hands may claps , but it take two to shake hands.
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